Surrogacy For Same-Sex Couples: FAQs

Becoming a parent through surrogacy is a little scary, especially for same-sex couples. This isn’t something that everyone goes through and it can be difficult to really connect with another couple that have gone through the exact same thing you are going through. As such, we spend a good deal of time helping you to feel comfortable with the process. 

Over the years, we have found that many couples going through surrogacy have some of the same questions. We have other FAQ pages where we cover many of these questions as well as some others. Here are some of the most frequent:

What Is Surrogacy?

Surrogacy is a beautiful, life-changing process during which a woman chooses to become pregnant with another couple’s baby via an embryo transfer. She carries that baby to term. It is always recommended that professional surrogacy agencies are used to help guide everyone through all aspects of the agreement.

At EDSI, we use gestational surrogacy, where the Surrogate is not biologically related to the baby that she carries. 

Is Surrogacy Legal For Same-Sex Couples?

This is a very difficult question to answer, as it is always changing. At the end of the day, it depends where you live. In the United States, surrogacy laws will vary from state to state. In California, it is completely legal for same-sex couples to have a family through surrogacy.

However, you should know that surrogacy laws are complex and you need to be careful. It is important to work with experienced surrogacy professionals to ensure that everything is legal and safe.

Are There Requirements For Same-Sex Parents To Use Surrogacy?

All Intended Parents need to meet specific requirements for the safety of the Surrogate and the resulting children. Intended Parents are screened on specific requirements that they need to meet. These screenings will determine whether or not they are ready to start the process.

Some states and professional organizations will have their own specific or additional requirements that IPs must meet, so be sure to check with your agency.

How Long Does Surrogacy Take?

The Surrogacy process typically takes between one to two years, from the time the couple starts the process to the time the baby is born. There are so many different variables that will impact this timeline, including how long it takes to pick a Surrogate, whether or not the Surrogate gets pregnant on the first attempt, and more. When you meet with a surrogacy agency, they can give you a more specific breakdown based on their own experiences.

Is Surrogacy Safe?

Surrogacy has come a long way thanks to advancements in medical technology, and it continues to improve with every passing year. In general, surrogacy is a very safe process. There are some risks with all medical procedures and with all pregnancies, but that is why we screen our surrogates and ensure that they are healthy enough to carry a pregnancy.

If you are hoping to have multiples, those Surrogates are often required to be just a little healthier and there is some added risk.

How Do You Get Started With The Surrogacy Process?

If you are ready to get started with the surrogacy process, contact a surrogacy professional as soon as possible. At EDSI, we have someone waiting to match with you and a caseworker waiting to answer any questions that you may have.

Interested In Building Your Family Through Surrogacy? Give Us A Call Today

Throughout the surrogacy journey, we recruit Egg Donors and Surrogates to match them with Intended Parents, including single parents and gay parents. From there, we seamlessly orchestrate the fertility journey through pregnancy and delivery. We make it a rule to be active problem solvers and advocates for our clients, making their experiences pleasant and hassle-free.

It would be our honor to help you grow your family. Please give us a call today so that we can start building your family on your own schedule. We look forward to speaking with you.



Egg Donor and Surrogacy Institute (EDSI)

8624 Wilshire Boulevard in Beverly Hills, CA 90211

(866) 344-3662


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