When Should Surrogates Submit An Application?

One of the most common questions that we get as a surrogacy agency in California is: “When should I submit an application to become a Surrogate?” People often wonder about the time of the year they should do it, but that really shouldn’t be your first priority. Instead, it should be based not on the need of Surrogates, but on your own life and goals.

At EDSI, we will talk to you about the surrogacy journey and help you to understand whether or not this is the right time. However, we suggest that you ask yourself the following three questions to determine whether or not it is time for you to submit a surrogacy application:

Am I Mentally Ready To Be A Surrogate?

We aren’t going to evade the most obvious question: can you mentally be a surrogate? This is a hard question to answer for yourself and it is hard for us to truly determine whether or not you are. This is why we include mental health screenings when we work with Surrogates. 

Carrying someone else’s child is a very special thing, but it isn’t for everyone. Surrogates go through all of the emotions of pregnancy, including extreme happiness and sadness. If you aren’t able to handle the emotional mood swings and the potential for postpartum depression, then it might not be the right time to submit a surrogacy application.

Am I Done Having Children?

The next important thing to ask yourself is whether or not you are done having children of your own. While many Surrogates will go on to have more children, there is always a risk with pregnancy that it could be your last one. As we age, our bodies tire and we may not be able to carry more pregnancies.

While giving someone else the gift of life is very important, you need to think about yourself first. If you don’t feel like your family is complete or you want to have more children, then it is not the time for you to submit a surrogacy application.

Will I Have Support During This Time?

At EDSI, we provide our Surrogates with an unprecedented amount of support and care. However, we know that we cannot be the only ones who support you through pregnancy. You want to ask yourself if you will have someone in your life that will support you as you go through this journey. It could be a significant other, a family member, or friends. 

Additionally, you want to be ready to make new friends. We have a group of Surrogates that talk to each other and work through any concerns that you may have. 

Ready To Start Your Surrogacy Journey? Contact Us Today

How can you know if you are ready to start the surrogacy journey? It is something that you need to ask yourself and really dig deep to figure out. Of course, we can help you to understand what surrogacy entails and what will be expected out of you. Remember that we are here for you whenever you make that choice. We are happy to give you more information now or schedule your consultation. If you need some help with self-care throughout your journey, we have resources to provide you with the care that you will appreciate and that will make you feel like the incredible woman that you are.

Surrogacy is an extremely rewarding experience that will change your life forever. If you are ready to get started on the surrogacy process, make sure to contact us today.


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