Surrogacy is a life-changing experience for intended parents and surrogates alike. Whether you’re an intended parent exploring how to start the surrogacy process or a prospective surrogate looking for guidance, understanding each step is essential.
At Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI), we provide a comprehensive surrogacy program that includes surrogate matching, medical and legal guidance, and emotional support.
This guide covers:
A step-by-step breakdown of the surrogacy process
The emotional journey of intended parents and surrogates
Surrogacy laws and legal considerations
If you’re wondering, “How does surrogacy work?” or “What are the legal steps for surrogacy?”, this blog will provide clear answers.
Step 1: Understanding Different Types of Surrogacy
Before beginning your journey, it’s important to understand the two types of surrogacy:
1. Gestational Surrogacy (Most Common Type)
The surrogate carries a baby that is not genetically related to her.
An embryo is created through IVF using eggs and sperm from the intended parents or donors.
This method is widely accepted in the U.S. and has clear legal protections.
2. Traditional Surrogacy (Less Common)
The surrogate uses her own egg and is biologically related to the child.
This process involves artificial insemination instead of IVF.
Traditional surrogacy has more legal complexities because the surrogate has genetic ties to the baby.
Most intended parents opt for gestational surrogacy because it offers clearer legal and emotional boundaries.
Step 2: Finding the Right Surrogacy Agency
Choosing a reputable surrogacy agency for intended parents and surrogates ensures a smooth and secure process. A professional agency like Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) provides:
✅ Surrogate screening and matching services
✅ Legal and financial guidance
✅ Support throughout pregnancy and postpartum
Why Should You Work With a Surrogacy Agency?
Many intended parents ask, “Can I find a surrogate without an agency?” While independent surrogacy is possible, working with an agency ensures:
Thorough medical and psychological screening for surrogates.
Legal protection for both parties.
Escrow services for financial security (handled separately through companies like SeedTrust).
Step 3: Matching with a Surrogate
The surrogate matching process is a critical step in the journey. At EDSI, we carefully pair intended parents with surrogates based on:
✔ Lifestyle preferences
✔ Shared expectations for communication
✔ Medical history and reproductive health
Key Steps in the Matching Process:
Surrogate application & medical screening
Background checks & psychological evaluation
Matching based on compatibility and preferences
Introductory meeting between intended parents and surrogate
Legal contract negotiation
Many intended parents wonder, “How do I know if a surrogate is the right match for me?” Our agency ensures that both parties feel comfortable and aligned before proceeding.
Step 4: Legal Agreements & Contracts
One of the most crucial steps in surrogacy is legal contract drafting. Every surrogacy journey must be supported by a legally binding agreement that protects all parties.
What’s Included in a Surrogacy Contract?
✔ Financial arrangements & surrogate compensation
✔ Medical responsibilities & prenatal care expectations
✔ Parental rights and birth certificate process
✔ Contingencies for medical complications
Surrogacy laws vary by location, so working with an experienced surrogacy attorney is essential. Intended parents often ask, “Is surrogacy legal in my state?” A knowledgeable lawyer will guide you based on state-specific surrogacy laws.
Step 5: Embryo Transfer & Pregnancy
Once legal contracts are finalized, the IVF and embryo transfer process begins:
1️⃣ Egg retrieval and fertilization through IVF
2️⃣ Embryo selection and transfer to the surrogate’s uterus
3️⃣ Pregnancy confirmation via blood tests and ultrasounds
The surrogate then receives prenatal care, with intended parents often attending appointments. Many wonder, “Can intended parents be present during the pregnancy?” The answer depends on the relationship and the birth plan.
Step 6: Birth & Finalizing Parental Rights
As the due date nears, a birth plan is created to outline delivery preferences.
After birth:
✔ Intended parents take custody of their baby
✔ Parental rights are finalized through pre- or post-birth orders
✔ The baby’s birth certificate is issued with the intended parents’ names
Final Thoughts: Is Surrogacy Right for You?
Surrogacy is an incredible journey, but it requires careful planning. Whether you’re researching how to start the surrogacy process or already committed to finding a surrogate, understanding these steps ensures a smooth experience.
At Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI), we guide intended parents and surrogates every step of the way.
Have questions about surrogacy? Contact us today to learn more!
