Baby Shower Planning Ideas For Your Sacramento Surrogacy

Having a baby shower when you are working with a Sacramento surrogacy agency can get a bit complicated. Some people feel strange when they work with a Surrogate and then have a baby shower. There aren’t very many manuals about this type of thing. We are here to tell you that you shouldn’t feel strange or uncomfortable at all. You are still going to become a parent and you deserve to be showered with the love and praise (and gifts) that comes with this event. 

One of the best ways to avoid some of the awkwardness that plagues all baby showers (not just those for Intended Parents) is to plan ahead. Gone are the days when you shouldn’t be involved in that aspect, at least somewhat. 

Worried about your shower? Here are some ideas to consider:

Show Showers

One of the best trends of the last few years has been the emergence of “Show Showers.” These are showers that ask attendees to keep their gifts unwrapped and simply attach a tag that says their names. This helps to reduce the waste produced by the event, which is a bonus for many people. However, the biggest appeal is that it takes some of the attention off of the expectant parents. You won’t sit in a chair and have everyone watching you. It’s a bit more lowkey and perfect for those parents who don’t like everything to be about them.

Be Involved In Planning Your Shower

In the past, people were “surprised” by their showers. That isn’t the case anymore in the age of social media and planning out every hour of your day. Talk to the people who will be planning your shower, whether they be family or friends, and tell them about any reservations that you may be feeling. It is important that you play an active role in planning your baby shower because it will reduce some of the anxiety you feel.

Being involved is also a great way to ensure that everyone is on the same page. Surrogacy can be time-consuming, especially as the due date gets nearer. Intended Parents have to do everything traditional parents do, as well as coordinate with the Surrogate and the surrogacy agency.

Be involved, at least somewhat, in the planning to help reduce your anxiety.

Should You Include Your Gestational Surrogate?

Another thing to think about is whether or not you want to include your Surrogate in the baby shower. Sometimes, the Surrogate is a bit more reserved and won’t want to be there or take away your attention. You will have to work it out with her to see what the best course of action is. 

If you have a close relationship with your Surrogate, it may seem natural to have her there. If you don’t, you may want to do something else to ensure she’s included. You may save her a piece of cake, put up some pictures of her, or have her video call in for a bit. It really depends on your relationship.

Talk to your Surrogate in person, if you can, about your decision. Whether you want her to be there or not, it is a good idea to explain your thought process. If you have trouble talking about it, reach out to your surrogacy agency for the best ways to communicate.

If you do include your Surrogate, be sure to introduce her to everyone.

Make Sure your Guests Understand Surrogacy

If you are having a child with a Surrogate, you automatically get some questions. Expect the guests at your baby shower to have many inquiries about everything, including some questions you might not want to answer. This is especially true at your baby shower: you want to focus on the event, not answering technical questions about the process.

To avoid this, help your guests understand surrogacy before they even get there. Maybe share some information on your own social media pages or send out some information, if you have a small enough group.

Ready To Start Your Surrogacy Journey? Contact Us Today

Surrogacy is an extremely rewarding experience that will change your life forever. If you are ready to get started on the surrogacy process, make sure to contact us today.


Egg Donor and Surrogacy Institute (EDSI)

8624 Wilshire Boulevard in Beverly Hills, CA 90211

(866) 344-3662


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