7 Ways To Know You Are Ready To Be A Surrogate

How can you know that you are ready to become a Surrogate? It is a question that we get asked almost every day, and unfortunately, we cannot answer that for everyone. Becoming a surrogate in San Diego (or anywhere else) is a big decision that should not be taken lightly. 

We have a list of questions that we ask potential Surrogate Mothers to see if she is truly ready – however, many of these questions require some soul searching and introspection as well as some collaboration with your family.

So how can you know? Here are some of the clues we’ve found:

You Feel It In Your Heart

Surrogacy isn’t something that you can only do because you want to make some money, you think it will look good, or because you know someone else who has become a Surrogate. It is something that you need to feel for yourself. 

You’ve Done Your Research

Another important step and thing to think about is whether or not you have done enough research. Being a Surrogate isn’t portrayed all that accurately in the media, so you need to look beyond that movie we’ve all seen and do some of your own research. You can read blogs that Surrogates have kept, watch their vlogs on YouTube, or connect with Surrogates using an agency.

You Are At A Healthy Weight

Weight is one of the biggest restrictions to becoming a Surrogate. If you are a health weight according to your BMI, you can become a Surrogate. This is for your own health and safety as well as the health and safety of the baby. If you aren’t at a healthy weight, you can work to achieve that weight.

You Want To Give A Gift Few Others Can

What the world always needs more of is love, and helping Intended Parents reach their lifelong goal and dream is one way to bring more love into the world. If this is something that you want to do, then becoming a Surrogate Mother or an Egg Donor might be a great option for you.

You Have A Dream To Make A Reality

We cannot create a blog like this without mentioning payment. While we want our Surrogates to have good hearts and genuinely love being pregnant, we know that there is a financial aspect to this as well. Surrogates take the money that they make and go on to do great things: they put down payments on homes, start college funds for their children, or go on dream vacations.

You Are Finished Having Your Own Children

The biggest question you have to ask yourself is whether or not you think of your family as complete. While Surrogacy is extremely safe, you do need to consider that sometimes things will go wrong and you may not be able to carry another pregnancy after this one. 

Make sure that you are finished with your family before you start to help someone else.

You’ve Found A Surrogacy Agency You Trust

It cannot be stressed enough that before you can become a Surrogate, you need to find an agency that you trust. You want to find an agency that will put your needs at the forefront and treat you like the incredible person that you are. Do your research on different surrogacy agencies in your area to see which ones meet your needs.

Ready To Start Your Surrogacy Journey? Contact Us Today

Finding the right fit can be quite difficult, and as this is a big decision to make taking all the time you need to make those decisions is imperative. We are here for you whenever you make that choice. We are happy to give you more information now or schedule your consultation. If you need some help with self-care throughout your journey, we have resources to provide you with the care that you will appreciate and that will make you feel like the incredible woman that you are.

Surrogacy is an extremely rewarding experience that will change your life forever. If you are ready to get started on the surrogacy process, make sure to contact us today.



Egg Donor and Surrogacy Institute (EDSI)

8624 Wilshire Boulevard in Beverly Hills, CA 90211


(866) 344-3662


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