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Surrogacy and Egg Donation FAQ

Welcome to the Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) information hub. Our surrogacy and egg donation FAQ answers the most common questions from intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors. Whether you’re just starting your journey or looking for guidance along the way, you’ll find answers on matching, costs, medical steps, and emotional support.

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Hands of a surrogate, parent, and baby — surrogacy and egg donation FAQ

for intended parents

In this part of our surrogacy and egg donation FAQ, intended parents will find answers about matching, costs, legal steps, and what to expect throughout the process.

If you are considering using surrogacy to achieve your goals of starting a family or extending your family, we can help you get there.

Medical and fertility questions

Can I use my own fertility doctor? +

Yes. Many intended parents continue working with their own fertility doctor for IVF, egg retrieval, and embryo creation. The gestational surrogate usually has embryo transfer and monitoring at a clinic that is experienced in surrogacy and meets legal and medical requirements in her state. Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) coordinates closely with your clinic so your care feels consistent while your surrogate receives specialised support where she lives.

Can HIV positive men safely use their sperm for IVF, and is there a risk of transmission to the surrogate or baby? +

With modern reproductive medicine, many HIV positive intended fathers can safely use their sperm for IVF. Clinics use techniques such as sperm washing, viral load monitoring, and strict laboratory standards before fertilisation. These steps are designed to protect the gestational surrogate and the embryo so the risk of transmission is extremely low when guidelines are followed. EDSI partners with fertility and infectious disease specialists who focus on HIV positive paths to parenthood and can explain every safety measure in detail.

Can surrogates have twins? +

In some journeys, a surrogate may carry twins. This is only considered when she is medically cleared and comfortable with that plan, and when your fertility clinic agrees that a twin pregnancy is appropriate. The decision is made in advance, discussed during matching, and written into the surrogacy contract, including additional monitoring and adjusted compensation. Most clinics still recommend transferring 1 embryo at a time to reduce risk, but EDSI will explain how twin options are evaluated for safety and success.

Can surrogacy fail? +

Surrogacy involves medical treatment, so there is always a chance that an embryo transfer does not result in pregnancy or that a pregnancy is lost. Outcomes depend on factors such as embryo quality, age, health history, and clinic protocols. If a cycle fails, many intended parents try additional transfers or consider rematching with a new surrogate. EDSI prepares you for these possibilities from the beginning and offers structured rematching support so your path can continue even if the first attempt is not successful.

What is the egg retrieval process in IVF for egg donation? +

In an egg donation cycle, the donor first takes hormone medications to grow multiple mature eggs in a single cycle. When monitoring shows that the eggs are ready, a fertility doctor performs egg retrieval in an outpatient setting using light sedation. Under ultrasound guidance, a thin needle is used to gently collect the eggs from the ovaries. The procedure typically lasts about 20 minutes, and most donors return to normal routines within 1 day. EDSI works only with clinics that prioritise donor safety and follow evidence based standards of care.

Matching and surrogacy process

How long does it take to find a surrogate? +

Many intended parents match with a pre screened surrogate in about 1 to 3 months. Timelines vary based on your preferences for location, experience, age, and lifestyle. Having embryos ready, being flexible on geography, and completing your intake quickly can help shorten the wait. EDSI keeps you updated with clear communication so you always know how your search is progressing and what the next step will be.

What is the surrogacy process for intended parents? +

The process begins with a consultation and intake so our team can understand your medical history, embryos, budget, and family goals. Next, you complete screening and work with us on matching criteria. Once you match with a surrogate, everyone completes legal agreements with experienced reproductive attorneys. Your clinic then prepares the surrogate for embryo transfer. During pregnancy, you stay informed through regular updates, appointments, and calls. After birth, legal steps confirm your parental rights so you can take your baby home with peace of mind.

How long does surrogacy take from start to birth? +

From first consultation to birth, most journeys take about 15 to 24 months. This includes time for intake, medical and psychological screening, matching, legal contracts, embryo transfer preparation, and a 9 month pregnancy. Timelines can be shorter or longer depending on how quickly you complete each step, how many cycles are needed, and the laws in your chosen state. EDSI provides a personalised timeline so you can plan emotionally, financially, and logistically for each phase.

What are the next steps to start the surrogacy journey? +

To begin, you schedule a consultation with EDSI, share basic background information, and tell us about your goals. After the call, you complete intake documents, send clinic records, and confirm your budget range. We help you choose a legal venue and coordinate with your fertility clinic. From there, we move into matching, legal agreements, and medical preparation. Our team guides you step by step so you are never left wondering what comes next or who is handling each task.

What happens if our egg donor or surrogate lives in a different location? +

It is very common for egg donors and surrogates to live in a different city, state, or even country than the intended parents. EDSI manages travel plans, clinic visits, online meetings, and legal coordination so the journey still feels connected and personal. The surrogate usually attends routine prenatal appointments near her home and travels to your chosen fertility clinic for major procedures. With thoughtful planning, distance rarely prevents a strong relationship or a successful outcome.

Legal and contract questions

Are surrogacy contracts enforceable? +

Surrogacy contracts are enforceable in many surrogacy friendly states that recognise gestational surrogacy. Enforceability depends on the laws where the surrogate lives and where the baby will be born. Some states clearly support compensated surrogacy with strong parentage orders, while others are more limited. EDSI works with reproductive law attorneys who know each state landscape so your contract and court orders provide the highest level of protection allowed by law.

What are surrogacy laws? +

Surrogacy laws are the rules that govern who can participate, whether compensation is allowed, how contracts must be structured, and how legal parentage is established. These laws vary from country to country and from one United States state to another. Some locations actively support gestational surrogacy and make it straightforward to secure parentage, while others restrict or prohibit it. Before you move forward, EDSI reviews your options and connects you with local legal professionals so you understand the path that fits your situation.

What are surrogacy contracts? +

A surrogacy contract is a detailed legal agreement between intended parents and a gestational surrogate. It describes responsibilities, medical decisions, compensation structure, travel, communication, insurance, privacy, and what will happen during and after pregnancy. The contract also explains how parentage will be established and which court will handle orders. Clear, carefully drafted terms support trust, reduce misunderstandings, and protect both the surrogate and the intended parents throughout the journey.

What are surrogacy friendly states? +

Surrogacy friendly states are places where courts and lawmakers clearly support gestational surrogacy and provide reliable routes to secure parental rights. States such as California, Illinois, Connecticut, Washington, and Colorado are often chosen because they allow compensated surrogacy and offer strong protections for both surrogates and intended parents. EDSI helps you select a legal venue that matches your goals, embryos, and family structure so your parentage plan is as secure as possible.

Who is the biological parent in surrogacy? +

The biological parent is the person whose egg or sperm is used to create the embryo. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate does not use her own eggs, so she has no genetic connection to the baby. Some families use both their own eggs and sperm, while others use donor eggs, donor sperm, or both. EDSI can help you understand how these choices affect biology, legal planning, and long term conversations with your child about their story.

Who is considered the parent in surrogacy, the biological parent or the intended parent? +

In modern surrogacy, the intended parents are recognised as the legal parents through court orders or other legal processes. This is true even when donor eggs or donor sperm are used. The biological parent is the person who contributes genetic material, but legal parentage can include a partner who does not share DNA with the child. Your attorney and EDSI team work together so your names appear correctly on the birth certificate and your parental rights are fully established.

Cost, insurance and financing

Can surrogacy be covered by insurance? +

Some parts of surrogacy may be covered by insurance, but most families still rely on private funding. Certain health plans may cover prenatal care and delivery for the surrogate if the policy language allows it, while IVF procedures for the intended parents are often billed through separate fertility coverage or self pay programs. Intended parents sometimes purchase a special policy focused on surrogate pregnancy. EDSI works with insurance experts to review your options before you finalise a match.

Can surrogacy be financed? +

Yes. Many intended parents combine savings, family support, employer benefits, grants, and specific fertility loans to cover costs. EDSI partners with financing companies that understand IVF and surrogacy expenses, and we can connect you with lenders who offer structured plans. During your consultation, you receive an overview of typical cost ranges and payment timing so you can design a financial strategy that feels realistic and organised.

Can surrogacy be free? +

Even in altruistic arrangements where a friend or family member carries without base compensation, surrogacy is rarely free. IVF treatment, medications, legal work, prenatal care, delivery, travel, and lost wages still create real costs that must be covered. In the United States, surrogacy is a carefully managed medical and legal process designed to protect everyone involved. EDSI helps you understand the full financial picture up front so there are no surprises later.

International surrogacy paths

How does surrogacy work in the United Kingdom (UK)? +

In the United Kingdom, surrogacy agreements are not legally binding, and commercial surrogacy is not allowed. Intended parents usually find surrogates through personal networks or non profit organisations, and surrogates can be reimbursed for expenses only. After birth, intended parents must apply for a parental order to be recognised as the legal parents. Because this framework can feel uncertain, many UK based families choose to work with United States agencies such as EDSI for clearer contracts and more secure parentage planning.

How does surrogacy work in South Africa? +

In South Africa, surrogacy is governed by the Children Act. The agreement must be approved by a High Court before any medical treatment begins. At least 1 intended parent must be genetically related to the child, and the arrangement is altruistic with reimbursement of expenses only. Once the court approves the agreement and the baby is born, the intended parents are recognised as the legal parents from birth. Some South African families still choose United States surrogacy through EDSI when they want more flexibility or shorter timelines.

How does surrogacy work in Australia? +

Australia regulates surrogacy at the state level. Commercial surrogacy is not allowed, and surrogates can be reimbursed only for approved expenses. Intended parents must usually show a medical or social need for surrogacy, and surrogacy agreements often are not fully enforceable. After birth, parents apply for a parentage order to be recognised as the legal parents. Limited surrogate availability and differing rules between states lead many Australian intended parents to seek journeys in the United States with support from agencies like EDSI.

How does surrogacy work in Canada? +

Canada allows altruistic surrogacy under the Assisted Human Reproduction Act. Surrogates can have pregnancy related expenses reimbursed but cannot receive separate compensation for carrying. Intended parents often connect with surrogates through personal networks or agencies that provide education and coordination rather than paid matching. Laws differ by province, especially around birth registration and parentage. Some Canadian intended parents choose United States surrogacy to access compensated arrangements, a larger surrogate pool, and clearer legal frameworks.

Family types and egg donation

Who can do surrogacy? +

Surrogacy can support many different family stories. Intended parents may include couples with infertility, women who cannot safely carry a pregnancy, LGBTQIA+ families, single parents, and international parents seeking a supportive legal environment. EDSI reviews your medical history, embryos, legal needs, and support system to help you decide whether surrogacy is the right path and what options fit best for your situation.

Can LGBTQIA+ and single parents use a surrogate through EDSI? +

Yes. EDSI proudly welcomes LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples, as well as single intended parents. We match you with surrogates who are fully supportive of your family structure and work with legal teams that understand parentage for same sex couples and solo parents. From intake through birth, our approach is inclusive, respectful, and focused on your long term family goals.

How does surrogacy work for gay parents? +

For many gay couples, surrogacy involves selecting an egg donor and deciding whether 1 or both partners will contribute sperm. Embryos are created through IVF and transferred to a gestational surrogate who has no genetic link to the baby. Legal planning addresses how both parents will be recognised in your home state or country. EDSI coordinates medical, legal, and logistical steps so your child story begins with clarity, safety, and pride.

Can intended parents meet their egg donor during the surrogacy process? +

In many programs, yes. EDSI offers anonymous, semi known, and fully known donation arrangements. Some donors prefer to remain private, while others are open to limited contact such as a video call or in person meeting. Any interaction must follow legal agreements, clinic policies, and comfort levels on both sides. We help you decide what level of openness feels right and how it may support your child understanding of their origins later in life.

How can intended parents learn more about their egg donor before selection? +

EDSI provides detailed egg donor profiles with medical and family history, genetic screening results, education, interests, personality information, and photos when available. Some donors also write personal essays about their motivations and life experiences. You can filter for key traits and then review full profiles after secure registration. Our team supports you in balancing medical, emotional, and practical factors as you choose a donor who feels like the right match for your future child.

Do intended parents need to register with Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) to access detailed egg donor profiles? +

You can often view basic donor previews without creating an account, but full profiles with sensitive medical and personal information require private registration. Registration allows EDSI to protect donor confidentiality, comply with ethical guidelines, and tailor recommendations to your needs. Once registered, you receive guided access to top donors, suggestions from our team, and support while you compare profiles and make a final choice.

Basic surrogacy definitions

How does surrogacy work in simple terms? +

In gestational surrogacy, embryos are created in a fertility clinic using the eggs and sperm of the intended parents or donors. A carefully screened surrogate has an embryo transferred to her uterus and carries the pregnancy on behalf of the intended parents. She has no genetic link to the baby when donor eggs or the intended mother eggs are used. Legal agreements and court orders confirm that the intended parents are the legal parents so they can take their baby home after birth.

What is a surrogate in pregnancy? +

A surrogate is a woman who chooses to carry a baby for intended parents who cannot carry on their own. In gestational surrogacy, she does not use her own eggs, so she is not biologically related to the child. She passes medical, psychological, and background screening and receives careful support from the clinic and the agency throughout the pregnancy.

Is a surrogate mother the real mother? +

In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate is not the biological or legal mother. The egg usually comes from the intended mother or an egg donor, and the sperm comes from the intended father or a sperm donor. Court orders and birth documents recognise the intended parents as the legal parents, which ensures that rights, responsibilities, and long term parenting are clearly assigned to the family raising the child.

Is a surrogate baby biologically yours? +

If the embryo is created with your own egg and your partner sperm, the baby is biologically related to you even though a surrogate carries the pregnancy. Some journeys use donor eggs, donor sperm, or both, which means 1 or both parents will not be genetically related. Many families still feel a strong bond regardless of genetics. EDSI can help you explore these options and consider what they mean for your family story.

What is the meaning of surrogate in pregnancy? +

The term surrogate in pregnancy refers to a woman who agrees to carry a baby for someone else with the understanding that the intended parents will raise the child. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby and participates under a written agreement and medical guidance. The arrangement is planned carefully to support everyone emotional and physical well being throughout the journey.

What makes someone a surrogate mother? +

Most surrogates are women who have already completed their own families, enjoyed pregnancy, and want to help others become parents. They must have a history of uncomplicated pregnancies, pass thorough medical and psychological screening, and have a stable support system at home. Agencies like EDSI also look for emotional maturity, clear motivation, and a cooperative mindset so that the experience is safe, respectful, and rewarding for everyone involved.

for surrogates

This section of the surrogacy and egg donation FAQ is designed for women considering becoming a surrogate, covering compensation, screening, and support.

To apply to become a Surrogate, please click the button bellow and you will be taken to our online application.

Medical and fertility questions

Can I use my own fertility doctor? +

Yes. Many intended parents can continue working with their own fertility doctor for IVF, egg retrieval, and embryo creation. The gestational surrogate usually receives medical care and embryo transfer at a clinic that meets legal and medical rules for surrogacy in her state. Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) partners with leading fertility clinics to respect your preferences while keeping the surrogate and pregnancy safe.

Can HIV positive men safely use their sperm for IVF, and is there a risk of transmission to the surrogate or baby? +

Yes. With current reproductive medicine, HIV positive intended fathers can safely use their sperm for IVF and surrogacy. Clinics use methods such as sperm washing and strict viral screening before fertilisation. These protocols protect the gestational surrogate and the embryo, so the risk of transmission is very low when guidelines are followed. EDSI works with fertility and infectious disease experts who specialise in HIV positive paths to parenthood.

Can surrogates have twins? +

Yes. A surrogate can carry twins if she is medically cleared and agrees to this in advance. The choice is discussed during matching and written into the surrogacy agreement, including extra monitoring and additional compensation. Most clinics and agencies still prefer single embryo transfer for safety, but some journeys do involve twins when everyone understands the added risks and responsibilities.

Can surrogacy fail? +

Surrogacy is a medical process, so there is always a chance that an embryo transfer does not work or that a pregnancy is lost. Results depend on embryo quality, clinic protocols, age, and health history. If a cycle fails, many intended parents try another transfer or sometimes rematch with a new surrogate. At EDSI we prepare families for these possibilities and offer rematching support so the journey can continue.

What is the egg retrieval process in IVF for egg donation? +

In an egg donation cycle, the donor first takes hormonal medicine so her ovaries grow several eggs at once. When the eggs are ready, a fertility doctor performs a short outpatient procedure under light sedation. Guided by ultrasound, the doctor uses a thin needle to collect the eggs from the ovaries. The procedure usually takes about 20 minutes, and most donors return to normal activities within 1 day. EDSI works with clinics that prioritise donor safety.

Matching and surrogacy process

How long does it take to find a surrogate? +

Many families match with a pre-screened surrogate in about 1 to 3 months, although the exact timing depends on your preferences for location, experience, and background. Clear criteria, ready embryos, and flexible timelines usually shorten the wait. EDSI keeps you updated at every step so you always know how your search is progressing and what to expect next.

What is the surrogacy process for intended parents? +

The surrogacy process begins with a consultation and intake so we can understand your goals, budget, and medical history. Next come screening, matching with a surrogate, and careful legal planning. After contracts are complete, your clinic prepares the surrogate for embryo transfer. Once pregnant, she receives ongoing prenatal care while you stay involved through updates and visits. After birth, legal steps confirm your parental rights so you can take your baby home with confidence.

How long does surrogacy take from start to birth? +

From your first consultation to birth, most journeys take about 15 to 24 months. This includes time for intake and screening, matching with a surrogate, legal work, medical preparation, embryo transfer, and pregnancy. Factors such as embryo readiness, legal venue, and surrogate availability all influence the timeline. EDSI provides a clear plan at the beginning and regular updates so the process feels organised rather than overwhelming.

What are the next steps to start the surrogacy journey? +

The first step is a consultation with EDSI where we review your story, medical background, embryos, budget, and timeline. From there you complete intake forms, share clinic records, and meet our team. We then move into matching, legal planning, and medical preparation. You do not need to know every answer in advance. Our role is to guide you through each stage, explain options clearly, and keep your journey moving forward.

What happens if our egg donor or surrogate lives in a different location? +

Many intended parents work with egg donors and surrogates who live in another city, state, or country. EDSI coordinates travel, clinic visits, legal planning, and virtual meetings so the process still feels connected and personal. The surrogate usually attends local prenatal appointments near her home while travelling to your selected clinic for major procedures. With careful logistics, distance does not have to limit your choice of the right match.

Legal and contract questions

Are surrogacy contracts enforceable? +

Surrogacy contracts are enforceable in many surrogacy friendly states that recognise gestational surrogacy. Enforceability depends on the law where the surrogate lives and where the birth will occur. Some states allow compensated surrogacy and pre birth orders, while others are more restrictive. Intended parents and surrogates should always work with experienced counsel in that state so the agreement and court orders fully protect everyone involved.

What are surrogacy laws? +

Surrogacy laws set the rules for who can participate, how contracts are written, which costs can be paid, and how parental rights are granted. These laws vary by country and by United States state. Some locations warmly support gestational surrogacy, while others limit or prohibit it. Before you choose a surrogate or fertility clinic, EDSI helps you understand the legal environment and connects you with local attorneys who focus on reproductive law.

What are surrogacy contracts? +

A surrogacy contract is a legal agreement between intended parents and a gestational surrogate. It outlines responsibilities, medical decisions, compensation, travel, insurance, contact during and after pregnancy, and how parental rights will be established. Clear written expectations support trust and protect both the surrogate and the family. EDSI only works with attorneys who specialise in this area so every term is consistent with local law and best practice.

What are surrogacy friendly states? +

Surrogacy friendly states are places where courts and lawmakers clearly support gestational surrogacy, compensated arrangements, and secure parentage orders. California, Illinois, Connecticut, Washington, and Colorado are frequently chosen because they offer strong protections for surrogates and intended parents. Since each state has its own rules, EDSI reviews your situation and helps you choose the safest venue for your journey.

Who is the biological parent in surrogacy? +

The biological parent in surrogacy is the person whose egg or sperm is used to create the embryo. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate does not contribute her own egg, so she has no genetic link to the baby. Biology and legal parentage are related but not always the same, which is why careful contracts and court orders are so important.

Who is considered the parent in surrogacy, the biological parent or the intended parent? +

In modern surrogacy, the intended parents are recognised as the legal parents. A court order or other legal process confirms this and ensures their names appear on the birth certificate. The biological parent is the person whose egg or sperm created the embryo, but legal parentage can also include a partner who is not genetically related. EDSI works with legal teams who guide you through the exact steps in your chosen state.

Cost, insurance, and financing

Can surrogacy be covered by insurance? +

Some parts of a surrogacy journey may be covered by insurance, but most families still need separate funding. A few health plans will cover prenatal care and delivery for the surrogate, while IVF and agency costs usually require private payment. Intended parents often purchase a special policy that focuses on surrogate pregnancy. EDSI helps you review options with insurance specialists before you commit to a match.

Can surrogacy be financed? +

Yes. Many intended parents use a mix of fertility loans, savings, family help, grants, employer benefits, and payment plans to cover surrogacy costs. EDSI partners with CapexMD to offer dedicated financing for fertility and surrogacy expenses. During your consultation we review typical cost ranges, payment structures, and possible financing tools so the financial plan feels realistic and transparent from the beginning.

Can surrogacy be free? +

Some families pursue altruistic journeys where a friend or relative carries without base pay, but even in those cases there are real costs. IVF treatment, prenatal care, delivery, legal work, and screening all create expenses that must be covered. In the United States, surrogacy is a carefully regulated process that protects the health and rights of everyone involved. EDSI helps you understand the full financial picture before you begin.

International surrogacy paths

How does surrogacy work in the United Kingdom (UK)? +

In the United Kingdom, intended parents usually find a surrogate through personal networks or non profit groups. Surrogacy agreements are not legally binding, and commercial payment is not allowed, although expenses can be reimbursed. After birth, intended parents must apply for a parental order to become the legal parents. Because of these rules, many families in the United Kingdom choose to work with United States agencies like EDSI for clearer contracts and stronger parentage protection.

How does surrogacy work in South Africa? +

In South Africa, surrogacy is governed by the Children Act. A court must approve the agreement before any medical treatment starts, and at least 1 intended parent must be genetically related to the baby. The arrangement is altruistic with expense reimbursement only. Once the court approves the agreement and the baby is born, the intended parents are recognised as the legal parents. Because the rules are strict, some South African families explore United States surrogacy with guidance from EDSI.

How does surrogacy work in Australia? +

In Australia, each state sets its own rules, but commercial surrogacy is not allowed. Surrogates can receive expense reimbursement, and intended parents must show a medical or social reason for needing surrogacy. Agreements help guide expectations but are often not enforceable. After birth, families apply for a parentage order. Limited surrogate numbers and legal variation lead many Australian intended parents to seek United States journeys through agencies such as EDSI.

How does surrogacy work in Canada? +

Canada permits altruistic surrogacy under the Assisted Human Reproduction Act. Surrogates can have expenses reimbursed but cannot receive separate compensation for carrying. Families often find surrogates through personal networks or agencies that provide education and coordination rather than paid matching. Laws differ by province, especially around parentage. Some Canadian intended parents choose United States surrogacy with EDSI to access compensated arrangements and clearer legal structures.

Family types and egg donation

Who can do surrogacy? +

Surrogacy supports many paths to parenthood. This can include couples who face infertility, women who cannot safely carry a pregnancy, LGBTQIA+ families, single parents, and international intended parents who want to work in a legally supportive location. EDSI welcomes all family types and helps you understand whether surrogacy is a good fit based on your health history, embryos, budget, and support system.

Can LGBTQIA+ and single parents use a surrogate through EDSI? +

Yes. EDSI proudly serves LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and single parents from around the world. We match you with surrogates who are fully supportive of your family structure, and we partner with attorneys who understand parentage for same sex couples and solo parents. From your first consult to the day you hold your baby, our team provides inclusive, non judgemental care.

How does surrogacy work for gay parents? +

For many gay couples, surrogacy involves using an egg donor and the sperm of 1 or both intended fathers. Fertilised eggs develop into embryos that the clinic transfers to a gestational surrogate. She carries the pregnancy but has no genetic link to the baby. Legal plans address how both parents will be recognised, and EDSI coordinates every stage so your child story begins with clarity and pride.

Can intended parents meet their egg donor during the surrogacy process? +

In many cases, yes. EDSI offers anonymous, semi known, and fully known donation. Some donors prefer privacy, while others are open to a limited video call or in person meeting. Any contact must respect legal rules, clinic policies, and personal comfort on both sides. During your consult we discuss which level of openness feels right for you and how it may shape your child experience as they grow.

How can intended parents learn more about their egg donor before selection? +

EDSI provides detailed donor profiles that include medical and family history, genetic screening, education, interests, personality information, and photos when available. Some donors share essays that explain why they chose to donate. You can filter the database by traits that matter to you, then review full profiles after confidential registration. Our team helps you balance medical, emotional, and practical factors while you choose the best fit for your future child.

Do intended parents need to register with Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) to access detailed egg donor profiles? +

You can often see basic donor previews without registering, but full profiles require a private login. Registration allows EDSI to protect donor confidentiality, share sensitive medical details securely, and tailor suggestions to your needs. After you register, you receive guided access to top donors plus support from our team while you narrow your shortlist and make a final choice.

Basic surrogacy definitions

How does surrogacy work in simple terms? +

In gestational surrogacy, embryos are created through IVF using the eggs and sperm of the intended parents or donors. A carefully screened surrogate carries the pregnancy but has no genetic link to the baby. Legal agreements protect everyone, and after birth the intended parents are recognised as the legal parents. EDSI coordinates the medical, legal, and emotional parts of this journey so you do not have to manage them alone.

What is a surrogate in pregnancy? +

A surrogate is a woman who chooses to carry a baby for intended parents who cannot carry on their own. In gestational surrogacy, she does not use her own egg, so she is not biologically related to the child. She passes medical and psychological screening and receives support from both the clinic and the agency throughout pregnancy.

Is a surrogate mother the real mother? +

In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate is not the biological or legal mother. She carries the baby and plays a very important role, but the egg usually comes from the intended mother or an egg donor. Court orders and birth documents recognise the intended parents as the legal parents so that rights and responsibilities are clear from the beginning.

Is a surrogate baby biologically yours? +

If the embryo is created with your egg and your partner sperm, then the baby is biologically related to you, even though a surrogate carries the pregnancy. Some journeys use donor eggs, donor sperm, or both, which changes biology but not the depth of the parent child bond. EDSI can help you think through which path makes the most sense for your family.

What is the meaning of surrogate in pregnancy? +

The term surrogate in pregnancy refers to a woman who agrees to carry a baby for someone else, usually through IVF and a written agreement. She is sometimes called a gestational carrier when she has no genetic link to the child. The relationship is carefully planned so that everyone understands expectations, boundaries, and the support that will be in place.

What makes someone a surrogate mother? +

Most surrogates are women who have completed their own families, enjoyed pregnancy, and want to help others experience parenthood. They must have a history of healthy pregnancies, pass thorough medical and psychological screening, and have a stable support system. Agencies such as EDSI also look for emotional maturity and clear motivation so that the journey is safe and respectful for everyone.

for donors

In this portion of the surrogacy and egg donation FAQ, egg donors can explore how the process works, what to expect medically, and how EDSI supports them throughout.

If you want to be an Egg Donor, please click the button bellow and you will be taken to our online registration.

Eligibility and Requirements

Who can become an egg donor? +

Most egg donors are women between 21 and 31 years old who are healthy, non-smokers, and have regular menstrual cycles. Donors must have a healthy BMI, no serious genetic or psychological conditions, and a reliable support system. EDSI also welcomes experienced donors who have completed previous cycles successfully. All applicants complete medical, psychological, and genetic screening to ensure readiness for the process.

Can I be an egg donor if my tubes are tied? +

Yes. You can still donate eggs if your tubes are tied because the procedure only affects the fallopian tubes, not your ovaries or egg production. The eggs are retrieved directly from the ovaries using a simple, ultrasound-guided procedure. Your ability to produce healthy eggs remains the same as before.

Can I donate eggs more than once? +

Yes. Many donors complete multiple cycles, usually up to six total, based on American Society for Reproductive Medicine guidelines. Each cycle requires approval from your fertility doctor to ensure your body recovers fully before the next donation. Repeat donors are often in high demand because they have proven medical results and reliable cycle outcomes.

Matching and Timeline

How long will it take before I’m matched with a recipient? +

Matching time depends on your profile, availability, and recipient preferences. Some donors are chosen within a few weeks, while others may wait one to three months. Profiles that include photos, detailed essays, and medical clarity usually match faster. Once matched, the full process from screening to retrieval takes around two to three months.

How long is the process once I’m matched? +

After matching, the process typically takes eight to twelve weeks. This includes medical screening, legal contracts, and about ten to fourteen days of fertility medication before retrieval. EDSI coordinates every step with your clinic and ensures you receive clear instructions and support throughout the cycle.

What happens if a recipient does not move forward? +

If a recipient changes their plans before your medications begin, EDSI will rematch you with another family. This happens occasionally and does not affect your eligibility. The team ensures that your screening results remain valid so your next match can start more quickly.

Medical Process

What does the egg donation process involve? +

The process includes screening, medication, monitoring, and egg retrieval. Once approved, you’ll begin taking hormones to stimulate multiple eggs to mature at once. The retrieval itself is a 20-minute procedure under light sedation, performed by your fertility doctor. Most donors return to normal activities within 1 or 2 days. Learn more about each step at EDSI’s Egg Donor Guide.

How are the eggs retrieved? +

The eggs are collected through a short outpatient procedure using ultrasound guidance. The doctor gently removes the eggs from your ovaries with a fine needle while you are under light sedation. There are no visible scars, and recovery is quick. Most donors rest for the remainder of the day and can resume normal activity within 24 hours.

Will donating eggs affect my future fertility? +

No. Donating eggs does not reduce your fertility or deplete your egg reserve. Each cycle releases many eggs naturally, and the medication simply matures more of them for retrieval. Your body continues to ovulate normally afterward. Fertility doctors monitor every donor closely to maintain long-term reproductive health.

Compensation and Costs

Who pays for medical and travel costs? +

All medical, travel, and related expenses are paid for by the recipient family or their agency. This includes screening, medication, retrieval, and any travel arrangements. You should never pay out of pocket for any part of the process. EDSI manages reimbursements and ensures all costs are covered through the recipient’s escrow account.

How much do egg donors get paid? +

Compensation varies based on experience, background, and location. First-time donors typically earn $8,000 to $12,000, while experienced donors or those with high-demand traits may receive higher amounts. Your pay covers your time, commitment, and medical participation. EDSI ensures transparent compensation with no deductions from your total amount.

Is egg donation taxable income? +

Yes. The IRS generally considers donor compensation taxable income, and you may receive a 1099 form. EDSI recommends speaking with a tax advisor familiar with fertility-related compensation so you can plan accordingly and set aside a portion for taxes if needed.

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