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Parham Zar
Parham Zar at Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute: A Leader in Surrogacy and Egg Donation
Experience and expertise
Parham Zar guides every part of the family building journey for intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors. From the first consultation to the birth of a child, he keeps every stage clear, caring, and well organized. His leadership blends strategy with compassion, turning complex steps into a process that feels personal and supportive.
He manages all core parts of the surrogacy and egg donation journey. This includes matching, screening, legal coordination, clinic scheduling, and support before and after birth. Parham handles each case with precision and transparency so that everyone involved stays informed and confident.
Over the past 25 years, Parham has built enduring relationships with leading fertility clinics, reproductive endocrinologists, and family law attorneys across the United States and internationally. These partnerships allow Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) families to access the highest medical and legal standards available, regardless of where they live.
What sets Parham apart is his balance of empathy and expertise. As a result, he gives families clear and realistic timelines. He also explains medical and legal steps in simple terms and helps them manage both the emotional and practical parts of the process.
In addition, his guidance draws on decades of hands-on experience with intended parents, surrogates, and donors from diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ and international families.
Parham’s philosophy centers on connection and trust. Each conversation, plan, and milestone shows his belief that family creation should be both deeply personal and professionally guided.
Authoritativeness and trust
Parham Zar is recognized across the fertility field for setting high standards of transparency and ethical care. His leadership has shaped policies that protect surrogates, donors, and intended parents through clear communication and reliable oversight. He works closely with trusted escrow partners such as SeedTrust to ensure accountability and safeguard funds.
Parham’s reputation is built on two decades of consistent results and thousands of successful journeys. Families, surrogates, and clinics turn to him for balanced guidance that combines professional rigor with empathy. His credibility comes from experience, not theory—every recommendation reflects real outcomes and years of hands-on work.
Areas of focus
Parham’s work centers on creating systems that make complex journeys feel human, predictable, and transparent.
The Matching Compass™ — a proprietary system he helped develop to align values, medical readiness, and legal fit between intended parents and surrogates.
Inclusive Family Building — ongoing advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and single parents through tailored legal and emotional support.
Global Coordination — guidance for international families navigating U.S. surrogacy and parentage laws.
Education and Mentorship — training programs for new coordinators and agencies to raise ethical and procedural standards.
Public Speaking and Media Engagement — frequent commentary on surrogacy trends, reproductive law, and ethical frameworks for assisted reproduction.
Media and speaking
Parham Zar is a frequent media contributor and public speaker on surrogacy, egg donation, and third party reproduction. He appears on television, in print interviews, and on expert panels where he discusses the emotional, legal, and ethical sides of family building through assisted reproduction.
Audiences appreciate how clearly Parham explains complex medical and legal topics. His talks often include real stories from EDSI journeys. These examples help families understand what to expect at every stage, from the first match to delivery and post birth support.
In addition, Parham speaks regularly at fertility conferences, family equality forums, and international events that explore reproductive technology and inclusive parenthood. His insights have appeared in major media outlets covering surrogacy trends, LGBTQIA+ family growth, and advances in fertility care.
Organizations, universities, and media outlets can contact Parham through the EDSI office to request keynotes, interviews, or educational sessions.
How Parham works with your family
Every journey with Parham Zar and the EDSI team begins with understanding your story. The process starts with a personalized consultation where your goals, medical history, legal needs, and emotional preferences are discussed in depth. Parham believes that each family deserves a plan designed around trust, clarity, and care.
Once your goals are defined, EDSI builds a clear roadmap using the Matching Compass™, a proprietary system that aligns intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors based on shared values, medical readiness, and legal compatibility. This stage also includes guidance on fertility clinic selection, psychological evaluations, and the creation of your family-building profile.
After a match is confirmed, Parham coordinates with your fertility clinic, attorneys, and support staff to ensure that medical screening, contracts, and transfer preparation move forward smoothly. Legal and medical milestones are carefully tracked with regular updates so you always know what to expect next.
When pregnancy begins, Parham continues to oversee communication between the surrogate, the parents, and the clinical team. He provides emotional and logistical support throughout the pregnancy and remains involved through delivery and post-birth arrangements.
Even after the baby arrives, Parham and the EDSI team stay connected to help with the transition home, birth certificate processing, and follow-up support. Families describe this continuity as one of the most meaningful parts of the experience—knowing that their guide is present from the very first meeting to the moment they hold their child.
Families often ask Parham how to begin their surrogacy or egg donation journey. He guides them step by step, from the first consultation through medical screening, legal agreements, and delivery.





