Surrogacy and Egg Donation FAQ for Intended Parents, Surrogates, and Donors

Summary

Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) provides clear answers to the most common surrogacy and egg donation questions for intended parents, surrogates, and donors. This FAQ is designed for fast search indexing and supports families who want expert guidance at every step.

What are the most common questions asked about surrogacy and egg donation with EDSI?

Families want quick answers about how surrogacy and egg donation work. This page gives you the most common questions asked at EDSI in one place.

EDSI provides clear guidance based on real questions from intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors. The goal is to give you fast, trustworthy information without confusion or long searches.

At Egg Donor and Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) you receive support from a team with more than twenty years of experience. Each answer reflects clinical insight, emotional support, and practical knowledge gathered from thousands of family building journeys.

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Hands of a surrogate, parent, and baby — surrogacy and egg donation FAQ

for intended parents

In this part of our surrogacy and egg donation FAQ, intended parents will find answers about matching, costs, legal steps, and what to expect throughout the process.

If you are considering using surrogacy to achieve your goals of starting a family or extending your family, we can help you get there.

What medical and fertility questions do intended parents often ask during surrogacy

Intended parents often want to understand clinic safety, embryo transfer success, and how their medical history affects the journey. These answers help families feel informed as they move into matching and treatment.

Can I use my own fertility doctor? +

Yes. Many intended parents continue working with their own fertility doctor for IVF, egg retrieval, and embryo creation...

Can HIV positive men safely use their sperm for IVF, and is there a risk of transmission to the surrogate or baby? +

With modern reproductive medicine, many HIV positive intended fathers can safely use their sperm for IVF...

Can surrogates have twins? +

In some journeys, a surrogate may carry twins...

Can surrogacy fail? +

Surrogacy involves medical treatment, so there is always a chance that an embryo transfer does not result in pregnancy...

What is the egg retrieval process in IVF for egg donation? +

In an egg donation cycle, the donor first takes hormone medications...

How does the surrogacy matching process work with EDSI

Matching begins with your preferences and medical history. EDSI screens every surrogate and guides you through selection, contracts, and the embryo transfer timeline with clear updates at every step.

How long does it take to find a surrogate? +

Many intended parents match with a pre screened surrogate in about 1 to 3 months...

What is the surrogacy process for intended parents? +

The process begins with a consultation and intake so our team can understand your background and goals...

How long does surrogacy take from start to birth? +

From first consultation to birth, most journeys take about 15 to 24 months...

What are the next steps to start the surrogacy journey? +

To begin, you schedule a consultation with EDSI...

What happens if our egg donor or surrogate lives in a different location? +

It is very common for egg donors and surrogates to live in a different location...

What legal and contract questions should families expect during surrogacy

Legal steps ensure parentage, clarify responsibilities, and protect both the surrogate and intended parents. Each family works with dedicated reproductive attorneys during the journey.

Are surrogacy contracts enforceable? +

Surrogacy contracts are enforceable in many surrogacy friendly states...

What are surrogacy laws? +

Surrogacy laws vary from state to state and country to country...

What are surrogacy contracts? +

A surrogacy contract is a detailed legal agreement...

What are surrogacy friendly states? +

Surrogacy friendly states offer clear legal parentage routes and strong protections...

Who is the biological parent in surrogacy? +

The biological parent is the person whose eggs or sperm are used...

Who is considered the parent in surrogacy, the biological parent or the intended parent? +

Intended parents are recognised as the legal parents through court orders...

What should intended parents know about surrogacy cost and insurance

Surrogacy has medical, legal, and agency related costs. Insurance may cover parts of the process depending on policy language and your chosen clinic.

Can surrogacy be covered by insurance? +

Some parts of surrogacy may be covered by insurance...

Can surrogacy be financed? +

Yes. Many intended parents combine savings, employer benefits, and financing options...

Can surrogacy be free? +

Even in altruistic journeys, costs such as IVF, legal work, and prenatal care must still be covered...

How do international intended parents navigate their surrogacy journey with EDSI

International families rely on EDSI for legal planning, clinic coordination, communication, and support across time zones and locations.

How does surrogacy work in the United Kingdom (UK)? +

In the United Kingdom, surrogacy agreements are not legally binding...

How does surrogacy work in South Africa? +

In South Africa, surrogacy must be approved by a High Court before treatment begins...

How does surrogacy work in Australia? +

Australia regulates surrogacy at the state level and does not allow compensated surrogacy...

How does surrogacy work in Canada? +

Canada allows altruistic surrogacy but does not allow compensation beyond expenses...

What should different family types know about egg donation and surrogacy

Intended parents may include couples, LGBTQIA+ families, single parents, and international families. EDSI supports every path with clear matching and legal planning.

Who can do surrogacy? +

Surrogacy can support many different family stories...

Can LGBTQIA+ and single parents use a surrogate through EDSI? +

Yes. EDSI proudly welcomes LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples, as well as single intended parents...

How does surrogacy work for gay parents? +

For many gay couples, surrogacy involves selecting an egg donor...

Can intended parents meet their egg donor during the surrogacy process? +

In many programs, yes. EDSI offers anonymous, semi known, and fully known arrangements...

How can intended parents learn more about their egg donor before selection? +

EDSI provides detailed egg donor profiles with medical history, education, and photos when available...

Do intended parents need to register with Egg Donor & Surrogacy Institute (EDSI) to access detailed egg donor profiles? +

Full donor profiles require private registration to protect donor confidentiality...

What basic surrogacy definitions should intended parents understand

Key terms like gestational carrier, parentage order, embryo transfer, and donor conception help intended parents follow medical and legal steps with confidence.

How does surrogacy work in simple terms? +

In gestational surrogacy, embryos are created in a fertility clinic...

What is a surrogate in pregnancy? +

A surrogate is a woman who carries a baby for intended parents who cannot carry on their own...

Is a surrogate mother the real mother? +

In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate is not the biological or legal mother...

Is a surrogate baby biologically yours? +

If the embryo is created with your own egg and sperm, the baby is biologically related...

What is the meaning of surrogate in pregnancy? +

The term surrogate refers to a woman who agrees to carry a baby for someone else...

What makes someone a surrogate mother? +

Most surrogates are women who have completed their own families, enjoyed pregnancy, and want to help others...

for surrogates

This section of the surrogacy and egg donation FAQ is designed for women considering becoming a surrogate, covering compensation, screening, and support.

To apply to become a Surrogate, please click the button bellow and you will be taken to our online application.

What medical and fertility questions do surrogates often ask

Surrogates usually want to understand clinic rules, medical safety, embryo transfer risks, and how their own health history affects eligibility. This helps them feel confident and prepared before starting the journey.

Can I use my own fertility doctor? +

Yes. Many intended parents can continue working with their own fertility doctor...

Can HIV positive men safely use their sperm for IVF, and is there a risk of transmission to the surrogate or baby? +

Yes. With current reproductive medicine, HIV positive intended fathers can safely use their sperm...

Can surrogates have twins? +

Yes. A surrogate can carry twins if she is medically cleared and agrees to this in advance...

Can surrogacy fail? +

Surrogacy is a medical process, so there is always a chance that an embryo transfer does not work...

What is the egg retrieval process in IVF for egg donation? +

In an egg donation cycle, the donor first takes hormonal medicine...

How does the matching and surrogacy process work for surrogates

The process begins with screening and matching, followed by legal steps and medical preparation. Surrogates receive ongoing support, clear timelines, and regular updates throughout the journey.

How long does it take to find a surrogate? +

Many families match with a pre screened surrogate in about 1 to 3 months...

What is the surrogacy process for intended parents? +

The surrogacy process begins with a consultation and intake...

How long does surrogacy take from start to birth? +

From your first consultation to birth, most journeys take about 15 to 24 months...

What are the next steps to start the surrogacy journey? +

The first step is a consultation with EDSI where we review your story...

What happens if our egg donor or surrogate lives in a different location? +

Many intended parents work with egg donors and surrogates who live in another state...

What legal and contract questions should surrogates expect

Surrogates review a contract that explains compensation, medical choices, rights, and expectations. Local laws guide the process, and each surrogate has her own lawyer to protect her interests.

Are surrogacy contracts enforceable? +

Surrogacy contracts are enforceable in many surrogacy friendly states...

What are surrogacy laws? +

Surrogacy laws set the rules for who can participate...

What are surrogacy contracts? +

A surrogacy contract is a legal agreement between intended parents and a surrogate...

What are surrogacy friendly states? +

Surrogacy friendly states are places where courts and lawmakers support gestational surrogacy...

Who is the biological parent in surrogacy? +

The biological parent in surrogacy is the person whose egg or sperm is used...

What should surrogates know about cost insurance and financial planning

Surrogates do not pay any costs. Intended parents cover medical care, travel, legal fees, and insurance. Compensation and reimbursements are outlined clearly in the agreement.

Can surrogacy be covered by insurance? +

Some parts of a surrogacy journey may be covered by insurance...

Can surrogacy be financed? +

Yes. Many intended parents use a mix of fertility loans, savings...

Can surrogacy be free? +

Some families pursue altruistic journeys where a friend carries without base pay...

International surrogacy paths

International families may follow different rules depending on their home country, but surrogates work under United States guidelines. EDSI manages logistics, communication, and expectations for cross border journeys.

How does surrogacy work in the United Kingdom (UK)? +

In the United Kingdom, intended parents usually find a surrogate through personal networks...

How does surrogacy work in South Africa? +

In South Africa, surrogacy is governed by the Children Act...

How does surrogacy work in Australia? +

In Australia, each state sets its own rules...

How do international intended parents navigate surrogacy with EDSI

International intended parents rely on EDSI for legal guidance, matching, communication, and secure systems that keep the process organised across locations.

Who can do surrogacy? +

Surrogacy supports many paths to parenthood...

Can LGBTQIA+ and single parents use a surrogate through EDSI? +

Yes. EDSI proudly serves LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and single parents...

What basic surrogacy definitions should surrogates understand

Understanding basic terms such as gestational carrier, legal parentage, embryo transfer, and IVF helps surrogates follow the process with clarity and confidence.

How does surrogacy work in simple terms? +

In gestational surrogacy, embryos are created through IVF...

What is a surrogate in pregnancy? +

A surrogate is a woman who chooses to carry a baby for intended parents...

for donors

In this portion of the surrogacy and egg donation FAQ, egg donors can explore how the process works, what to expect medically, and how EDSI supports them throughout.

If you want to be an Egg Donor, please click the button bellow and you will be taken to our online registration.

What are the eligibility and requirements for egg donors

Egg donors must meet medical age and lifestyle guidelines so clinics can confirm that they are healthy and ready for the donation process.

Who can become an egg donor? +

Most egg donors are women between 21 and 31 years old who are healthy...

Can I be an egg donor if my tubes are tied? +

Yes. You can still donate eggs if your tubes are tied...

Can I donate eggs more than once? +

Yes. Many donors complete multiple cycles...

How does matching and timeline work for egg donors

Matching depends on donor profile details and recipient preferences, and most donors match within a few weeks to a few months.

How long will it take before I am matched with a recipient? +

Matching time depends on your profile...

How long is the process once I am matched? +

After matching, the process typically takes eight to twelve weeks...

What happens if a recipient does not move forward? +

If a recipient changes their plans...

What is the medical process for egg donation

The medical process includes screening, monitored medication, and a short outpatient retrieval that allows for quick recovery.

What does the egg donation process involve? +

The process includes screening, medication, monitoring...

How are the eggs retrieved? +

The eggs are collected through a short outpatient procedure...

Will donating eggs affect my future fertility? +

No. Donating eggs does not reduce your fertility...

How do compensation and costs work for egg donors

Donors receive a set compensation and all medical travel and related costs are fully paid by the intended parents through secure escrow.

Who pays for medical and travel costs? +

All medical, travel, and related expenses are paid by the recipient family...

How much do egg donors get paid? +

Compensation varies based on experience and background...

Is egg donation taxable income? +

Yes. The IRS generally considers donor compensation taxable income...

Where can intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors find trusted support online

EDSI works with national partners, legal experts, and medical professionals that provide reliable education for intended parents, surrogates, and egg donors. These resources help families feel more confident as they explore the steps of assisted reproduction.

Resolve National Infertility Association
Educational support for fertility treatment along with peer networks for intended parents.

American Society for Reproductive Medicine
Guidelines for donors, surrogates, and intended parents created by medical specialists.

SeedTrust Escrow
Independent escrow services that protect funds for intended parents and surrogates during treatment.

Family Equality
Resources for LGBTQIA plus families exploring surrogacy and egg donation.

CDC Assisted Reproductive Technology Reports
United States data on IVF outcomes, clinics, and national fertility statistics.

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